Thursday, December 13, 2007

Hiking with the Girls




Today is Thursday and for the vast majority of Thursdays since Natalie was two months old, that means hiking for us. Natalie's first hiking outing was on a chilly January weekend. Her Dada and I decided to go to Elfin Forest which was one of our favorite hiking finds around our area. Natalie was all bundled up in her only outfit that had mittens attached to her sleeves. She also wore a Hannah Anderson hood-style cap that reminded me of Snoopy as the pilot in the peanuts cartoons. My husband wore his tiny baby in the bjorn all the way up and down the mountain. Our little tiny Natalie just bounced along and slept happily on Dada's chest for the entire trek. When we reached the peak, I had to feed Natalie since little ones eat so often. It was a beautiful day and the view was incredible. I think both my husband and I were relieved to find that yes, we could still hike with a child.




Tons of hikes later (and quite a few bjorns and strollers later), here I am today still hiking with my Natalie but now also with little Noelle. I have upgraded to a new double decker stroller to fit our needs. I have become the captain of a hiking playgroup over the last two years. First I brought friends informally through other playgroups and now I have my own. Things have changed over time. It is not as easy to hike with the babies now that they run, jump, and tantrum. Some members have moved away, taken day jobs, or found other things to fill their Thursdays. Some of them would like to come but their toddlers don't share the same desires. All these things have resulted in hikes that occur only monthly instead of weekly. While it is sad that the hikes are less often, this opens doors for new activities and opportunities while still getting our hiking fix occasionally.




Today we are hiking at Los Penasquitos Canyon Preserve. We have four Mamas, two little boys, and two little girls. I am thrilled to have the company and the adventure. We set out with our jogging strollers, sippy cups, snack traps, diapers, and all the rest. The air is filled with bird songs, the wind, Mama conversation, and the occasional toddler demands. About a mile and a half in, we reach the waterfalls. Pictures are taken and children are fed. On the way back the kids are released from their joggers and allowed to explore the trail within close sight of the Mamas. Natalie attempts of run miles away on a couple occasions which results in me yelling after her to come back. She doesn't, and I have to sprint after her as she cackles with glee. Eventually after watching her friend Emberlynn, she begins to understand how the other children stick nearby. We play a game of red light green light to reinforce the concept of listening to Mama. It is somewhat successful! Maybe next time Natalie will stay close by..or maybe not. Noelle rides in the back seat of my jogger and stares out at the canyon grasses. At the ripe age of 5 months, she is already becoming a hiking veteran.




My husband and I dream about days ahead that include tents, campfires, and child size walking sticks. We buy board books about nature and hope that we are raising children that appreciate our natural world. My husband has already helped Natalie to notice the trees (do they have leaves or needles?) and she also has a good understanding of animals and their sounds. I am excited about scouting programs, 4H, summer camp trips, and school science projects. Some day our family will all walk a trail together and make it to some high peak. Until then, I am happy to push my little ones down the path for as long as they need me to. On the way home Noelle falls into another blissful sleep. I ask Natalie "Did you have fun on the hike?" Her answer is music to my ears. She smiles and replies "Yeah."

Tuesday, December 11, 2007

Intro to our Family/Holidays with the Girls






Wow,



I was just thinking the other day how it would be nice to have a place to jot down my thoughts..especially my thoughts on my two daughters. These little girls are taking me on quite a ride of excitement, chaos, deep deep love, and awe. I am getting ahead of myself though so let me introduce all of us.



My husband and I (I am hesitant to say our names on the blog) met at a groovy church in Las Vegas 6 years ago. I was completing my masters in education at UNLV and he was working in Vegas at the time. After many fantastic hikes together (and 3 years), we got married in my hometown church in California. A year and a half after this, we moved to Southern California and were blessed with our firstborn daughter, Natalie. Life is so, so great! Nineteen months later, we were blessed with our second daughter, Noelle. One funny side note: Both of the girl's names mean Christmas yet neither are born in December. In fact, Noelle's birthday is pretty close to the furthest day from Christmas possible. We loved the name Natalie. Later, we loved how the name Noelle sounded next to Natalie!



Back to present day, I now have a two year old (25 months) and a five month old. I quit my job teaching first grade so I could stay at home and take care of my babies. It has been well worth every second. We are members of two different playgroups, Stroller Strides, MOPS, a pre-preschool class for Natalie, and I am also the captain of a hiking playgroup that meets once per month. My husband has been incredibly supportive and he is himself an amazing parent (Dada) to his little girls.



Lately my life has included a whole lot of entertaining and interacting with one child or the other (back and forth) and breastfeeding constantly. We started solid food a few weeks ago with Noelle and I am thankful to have another way to feed her. The feedings with Noelle are going very smoothly. Natalie is a bit nit picky with her food intake lately but that comes with the territory at age two I am told. My favorite things in the world these days are my wonderful husband and watching Natalie being sweet with her baby sister.



It is the Christmas season right now and I am making the most of it. I have actually been very excited about each holiday that has come up since we have had children. I thought I loved the holidays teaching first grade but when you have kids, it is even more fun. At Halloween, we did it all. We had the pumpkin patch trip, the pumpkin festival, the Halloween party, and trick or treating. Natalie went as a butterfly and Noelle was a caterpillar. I figured this would be my last year that I could pick both of their costumes!



This Christmas we have been out and about doing it all. The girls have taken pictures with not one but three different Santas. We got the Wiggles serenading us with Christmas songs in the car. Yesterday we made gingerbread houses (a Mama-intensive project), and nearly every weekend we drive around seeing the holiday lights. We just love the neighborhoods that go all out for the holidays. If it wasn't for my husband's voice of reason, our own house would be a virtual wonderland of moving animals, bells, and lights. I did get away with two polar bears and a penguin! Yes, Christmas this year has been a lot of fun. Last year Natalie just stared in a wordless wonder while we drove through the Christmas displays (she was 13 months old). This year, she seems dazzled by the colors and the animals. If she sees something she likes, she usually sounds something like this: "Star! There is the star! Star! Do you see the star?" and after we have drove away.. "Where did the star go?" It is hard to know if Noelle is getting anything out of it this year at 5 months but next year should be a blast for her! One thing Noelle is good at this year.. sitting on Santa's lap! Noelle is a champ at this and has done so three times now. No problem! We even get smiles sometimes. Natalie on the other hand must somehow have learned how Santa and Satan have the same letters and both wear red clothes. She is not on the Santa-loving bandwagon! Last year she screamed her head off when I placed her casually on Santa's lap at the mall. This year she is older and wiser and seems to be able to smell Santas coming. She immediately asks Mama to pick her up and then the finger nails begin to dig into my skin as she goes into you-will-never-be-able-to-peel-me-off-of-you/leach mode. Thus we end up with either "Family photos with Santa" or "Noelle only photos with Santa." I would like to tell myself that next year I will get the perfect Santa photo. Natalie will be over her Santa phobia by then right? Who am I kidding? Noelle will be deep into the same thing by then!